Mastering time doesn't need to be hard or elaborate. Often, it's the little tools that blend seamlessly into our routine.

My wife and I struggled with syncing our schedules for a while. She shared her shift times, I discussed my business trips, but we'd quickly forget.

This was also true for:

  • Plans for outings, like dining or theatre.
  • Joint chores, such as decluttering the basement.
  • Invites from family and friends.

The game-changer was a simple weekly planner on our dining table—just a column for each day of the week.

Now, we jot down our absences, ideas, and to-dos.

Sure, there are apps for this, and we could share to-do lists, but the dining table planner is tied to our daily routine, especially dinner.

At dinner, we can't avoid checking and updating the planner.

Even better, the calendar prompts us to discuss potential plans. The blank weekend slots practically ask for it.

It's been an enormous help.

  • No more aimless weekends, often leading to dull days instead of exciting activities. We know who's around and what ideas we have.
  • Tasks become more binding. The "clear out the basement" chore gets visibly carried over week by week, motivating us to clear it off our table literally.

Give it a try! These planners aren't costly, and you'll find a wide selection on Amazon.

P.S.: What habits and routines do you have for discussing activities, plans, and ideas with your family?